Sunday, 8 December 2024

‘Tis the Season to be . . . Shopping

 

I was at the mall the other day.  It was a Saturday and the mall was busier than normal.  The Christmas shopping season must really be underway.  Some stores were very busy and others not so yet.  I was in my favourite jewelry store, for a minor watch repair, and it wasn’t busy at all.  The owner said that men were his main customers at this time of year and they tended to shop later.  After all, it was only December 1st.

First man, “Have you started your Christmas shopping yet?”

Second man, “Why?  Is it Christmas Eve already?”

Of course, who knows when Christmas shopping is supposed to start.  Some say in September.  Others say right after Thanksgiving.  Others say Christmas Eve.

First woman, “I’m so confused!”

Second woman, “Why?”

First woman, “I don’t know at which sale to do my Christmas shopping; post-Halloween, pre-Black Friday, Black Friday, post-Black Friday, Cyber Monday, post-Cyber Monday, extended Black Friday, pre-Christmas, Christmas, Boxing Day, post-Boxing day, extended Boxing Day, or early January.”

It seems a sad commentary that the only measure of “success” of Christmas is whether or not retailers made enough money this year.  Why can’t there be other measures like how many happy family get-togethers there were, how many strangers were greeted by someone wishing them the best of the season or how many store clerks were made to feel special for the service they gave.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful if everyone said Merry Christmas and really meant it?  Wouldn’t it be fantastic if there really was peace on earth?  Make a stranger feel happy this season and see how good it makes you feel.  And please don’t forget or ignore people of other beliefs who have holy days at this time of year. 

On that note, I sincerely wish everyone a very happy season, and may your shopping be a happy experience, no matter when you do it.  Look for me out on Christmas Eve.

 

One More Christmas Blog

 

People celebrate Christmas in a number of ways.  Some are very traditional and celebrate the same way every year.  For others, something a bit different each year is their preference.  To some, Christmas is celebrated as a very religious event, and the birth of Jesus is the central tenet of their season.  Others celebrate Christmas as a very secular event.  Most of us, I suspect, are somewhere in the middle on this.  We happily combine the secular and material side with some adherence to the religious meaning.  How it is celebrated is an individual affair for some people or, more probably, a family affair. 

As with most things, there is some controversy around Christmas, particularly its Christian history.  Some question whether there every was a man named Jesus who was an itinerant preacher.  I am convinced that there was such a man and my conviction is bolstered by a near contemporary of Him, a Jewish historical writer named Josephus who wrote about such a man.  Others question the timing of the Christmas story.  We do not have any written testimony of the actual time of year that the birth took place, just as we do not have any evidence of the time of His death on the cross.  That the dates that we now celebrate these events coincide with pagan celebrations, the winter solstice and spring awakening at Easter, are undoubtedly true, but there may have been a fairly obvious reason for this in the ancient church.  They may have been celebrated in the dark days when early Christians had to hide their faith because of persecution.  To celebrate their holy days to coincide with other events would have given them cover to remain undiscovered and therefore safe. 

There are many things about Christmas other than midnight church, Christmas dinner, family visits and exchanging gifts.  We hear the plea ‘Peace on Earth’ as part of Christmas greetings although it should be a plea all year round.  But to hear it highlighted at this time is very heartening.  In addition we almost all wish people a Merry Christmas or a Seasons Greetings, even strangers.  The feeling of fellowship that permeates this time of year shows that people really can rise to the occasion and have good feeling toward others.  It’s amazing how a smile and a “Merry Christmas” can make the most harried sales clerk feel better.  Oh that that feeling by all people could last the whole year.  But that it does, in general, happen at this time of year is something else to celebrate. 

And then there is Christmas music.  Oh, I know of the shlock that blares at you in malls and stores, but that should not detract us from the really good music at Christmas.  We have traditional Christmas carols which are best heard with a good choir like the Mormon Tabernacle Choir although I always feel that the best rendition of ‘Silent Night’ is by a solo boy soprano (admission – that used to be me when I was young).  There are also some very good popular songs and arrangements.  My favourites include Carly Simon and Willy Nelson’s duet of ‘Pretty Paper’ and Dolly Parton and Kenny Rogers’ duet of ‘Once upon a Christmas’ among many more.  Of course I also like Handel’s “Messiah’.  So when the stress of Christmas gets you down, sit down for half an hour and listen to some soothing Christmas music.

So let us go forward and celebrate Christmas as we each see fit.  To my non-Christian friends, I send you Seasons Greetings.  And let’s see if we can extend the good feelings of this season all year round.

The Christmas Village

 

Every year, I get to place my Christmas village as part of the decorations. This village is kind of special because it is truly a family assemblage.  Most of the buildings were bought and painted by my daughter and given to me as gifts.  My wife has added many of the accompanying pieces like trees and people.  For many years it has had pride of place under the Christmas tree.  There were even years when I placed a model railroad line around it complete with a working train.  Most years that the train was part of the layout, the train would be derailed and knocked over by our dog.  And then the grandkids also thought it was a toy just for them.  The train is no longer part of the village scene.  You see all kinds of villages like mine or even more elaborate.  A lot of stores and businesses have such displays.  They all seem to have one thing in common – they all feature old fashion buildings.  You never see an ultra-modern house or glass and steel buildings. 

You might wonder why such displays are so popular at this time of year.  They all depict the past and bring memories of the past; an idealized past, no doubt, but the past nonetheless.  This is a time of year that evokes memories of the past; a nostalgic time.  We become nostalgic for a Christmas that was especially good, or Christmas when our kids were young, or a Christmas when we were kids.   We like to look back on simpler times and this tends to bring us peace at this time of year.  We look back on a time of small town life, even we who have never lived in a small town.  It’s a very comforting kind of nostalgia.  And for most of us, that nostalgic feeling is what makes Christmas such a comfort after the hustle-bustle of shopping, entertaining and cooking.

But not all of us can aspire to that kind of nostalgic and comforting Christmas.  There are people who have never had a pleasant Christmas.  There are people who are too poor to afford the food and trappings expected at Christmas.  There are those who suffer because of sickness, war or starvation, who may never experience a happy Christmas. 

Christmas Gift Ideas

 

“Ladies, I’ve got the perfect gift for your husband this Christmas.  Why not buy him a new deck for your home?  We’ve got a special on decks this Christmas season. ”

“But we live in northern Canada.  You can’t put up a deck in winter!”

“That’s okay because we can ship all the material you need for that new deck, and have it there by Christmas Day if you order today.”

“What good will that do?  What are we supposed to do with all that material sitting around?”

“Just think about all the fun your husband will have next summer putting up your deck.”

“Forget it!  My husband couldn’t build a house of cards.”

Have you noticed that just about every retailer has the perfect gift for someone?  And some of their gift ideas get downright ridiculous. 

“Hey Honey!  Guess what I got you for Christmas?  A new wall to wall carpet . . . black . . . shag . . . for the bathroom.  Isn’t that great?”

The airways, the newspapers and the mailboxes (community or door-to-door) are filled with ads for “the best Christmas gift ever.”  Every wife/husband/child/ mother/father-in-law/dog/cat must have one of these for Christmas.  Every retailer from big box stores to mall aisle vendors has a Christmas gift idea for you.

“So, what did you get your Mother-in-law for Christmas?”

“We got her an all-day session at a paint ball park.  They had them on special at the mall.”

I guess you can’t blame retailers from trying to make the most of the holiday season.  They say that a large part of their annual revenues come during the Christmas shopping period.  But sometimes you think that they are trying too hard.  Every year you hear the same story that Christmas is a “success” only if sales exceed last year’s. 

For the poor consumer/Christmas shopper, this leads to a sense of panic that they are not doing their best in the cause of that “successful” Christmas.  They become desperate to find even more unique gifts, hence decks, shag carpets and paint ball sessions.  One of my favourite Christmas ornaments shows a harried shopper with the caption “Spirit of Christmas stress”.  It just seems to capture what has become the spirit of Christmas.  So, you Christmas shoppers get out there and see what outlandish gifts you can find for your loved ones this year.

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL.

We Don’t Talk About That

 


They say that in polite company, you don’t talk about politics or religion.  Well, I’ve already talked about politics in this blog site, so I guess it’s time to talk about religion.

Let’s start by acknowledging that I consider myself a religious man, a Protestant Christian in fact.  The fact that I don’t attend any church has more to do with my issues with organized churches than any lack of religious conviction.  I read quite a lot about religion, both its chronological and spiritual history.  I read about religions other than Christianity; primarily Judaism and Islam, and the relationship between the three. I also read what the skeptics say as well; those who claim there is no God, or God is dead or, as Karl Marx said, “Religion is the opiate of the masses.”  None of that has shaken my faith.  But you didn’t come here just to hear about me.  The previous bit was for background.

So, let’s concentrate on the three great monotheistic religions: Judaism, Christianity and Islam.

The interesting thing about the three is that they all hark back to the same ancient Biblical person, Abraham.  To some degree, all three were built one upon the other, but Judaism is the most ancient and the first to espouse monotheism.  When Jesus arrived on the scene, Judaism and the Jewish state were in turmoil.  Internally, there was an ongoing struggle between two factions: the Pharisees and the Sadducees.  Think of them as the political parties and religious factions of the day, because they were both.  He who ruled the Temple ruled the population.  In addition, there was the cultural struggle between the Jewish culture and the growing influence of Hellenism, the Greek culture.  Throw on top of that the fact that the Jewish homeland was ruled by the Romans.  Jesus, I believe, saw his role as reforming Judaism, not starting a new religion.  Christianity grew out of the teachings of Paul who was trying to export the new teaching to the non-Jewish gentiles.  Similarly, Islam grew out of an attempt, largely successful, to integrate a part of the Middle East that was still full of small monotheistic and pantheistic groups, what we might refer to as cults. 

The Jews, as with many communities in those days, were ruled as a Theocracy.  The church was the state and the state was the church. Laws were only considered legitimate if they were issued by or with the endorsement of the church. This might seem at odds with my statement above that Rome ruled the Jewish homeland, but it is the difference in ruling the land and ruling the people. Rome ruled the land.  The Jewish leadership ruled on the day to day activities of the Jewish people, wherever they may be.  Hence, many different dos and don’ts were captured in church (and hence state) law: dietary restrictions; dress codes; laws controlling social interaction; and laws controlling interaction with other peoples.  This theocratic legal system was passed on to early Christians in the Roman Empire because this was, to some degree, what they were used to. Roman rule by this time was based on the concept that the Emperor was a deity. The result was that a lot of things have come down to us as “God’s will” that have nothing to do with religious spiritualism. Pure religion is the quest for the spiritual not the temporal. This is true to some degree or another for all three religions.  It was this tension between the temporal and the religious that prompted Jesus’ admonition to “give unto Caesar that which is Caesars and give unto God that which is God’s”.  It was the first statement of the separation of church and state.

Religion has been blamed for a lot of things: abuse; wars; terrorism; misogyny; even slavery, to name just a few.  And yet nothing in the basic teachings of any of these religions sanctions such things.  It is all caused by misunderstanding or purposeful misreading of these teachings. Religion, or the perceived threat to “your” religion, is one of the most powerful motivations to get ordinary people riled up enough to go to war, or to carry out unspeakable acts.  It is not usually religion that causes these wars, it is the will of the powerful to protect or enhance their power. Ethnicity, religion and loot are the three great motivators for the people.  But the promise of loot can only go so far, for once people have it they no longer want to fight, but now want to enjoy it.  This leaves the other two motivators which are quite often intermingled since ethnicity and religion usually go together. 

Religion does not usually get recognition for the good things it accomplishes.  Its teaching of equality enhanced the idea of democracy.  Its teaching of community and compassion brought forth charity and help for the less fortunate.  Its teachings about respect (a word I prefer to “love” as it is used in the Bible.  In the lexicon of today, respect one another is probably more meaningful than love one another) brought forth the ideas about the worth of others, even enemies. Christianity, as it was first conceived, was a very socialistic message.  It is therefore strange to hear so-called Christian right-wing conservatives try to use the Bible to foster individual wealth and individuality.  These were the very traits that Judaism and Christianity preached against.

God, by whatever name, is often accused by individuals of allowing heinous acts.  Why would God allow earthquakes or floods, pestilence or massacres?  How is God going to solve our problems?  But that is not God’s role.  What our religion, our spirituality, does is show us how to rise above these tragedies; how to fix the problem ourselves; how to prevent the heinous acts of others.  Spirituality gives us the strength to persevere, to act wisely and compassionately, and to overcome our diversity. 

So during this period when we traditionally celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah and Eid, let’s try and remember what our religions really mean.  Let’s stop using them as excuses for temporal acts and start using them for the inner strength and compassion they were meant to achieve.

I hope that I have not shocked or upset anybody with this post.  It was not my purpose.  I just wanted to get us thinking about what religion really is or is meant to be during this season of religious celebration.

 

Thursday, 31 October 2024

Decision 2024

 

The US election is just a few days away. It is being billed as one of the most important in US history (although 1860 could be the more the most important being in essence a vote for civil war). It is my firm opinion that Donald Trump will be the next President of the US.  Oh, he may not win the popular vote. He may not even win the Electoral College (that ridiculous hang over from the days when the states tried to determine who they would accept as president). He will win it through the courts, or failing that, through insurrection.

It would not be out of character for he and his followers to follow that path. Quite a number of his followers are members of the NRA and of militias. He has already claimed that he will use the US military against US citizens. But they will not wait until January 6th to begin this operation. It will begin as soon as Kamala Harris has been declared the winner by the television networks a few hours or days after the voting ends.

Could I be wrong.  I hope so. Maybe Mr. Trump will win the presidency honestly and fairly.  It is a very close race the polls keep telling us. In that case, he will declare at the voting system is without fault. Will he then say that the 2020 election was fair and honest?  No likely.

If he does win the election, will that be the end of it? Again, not likely. He will try to use all of his executive powers to bend the country to his will. He will be successful in this if his party captures the two houses of congress. If they do not, it will undoubtedly lead to grid lock and government by presidential decree. 

Maybe Donald Trump is the poster boy for the idea that business executives should never be national leaders.  Business demands quick answers, profit, market share, the primacy of the shareholders, and the ability to make rule changes by decree (or memo if you prefer). I’m sure you have heard the plea that government should be run more like a business.  But government is not a business. It operates under vastly different dynamics than business.  Perhaps the best description of government is that it is the art of the possible. In a democracy, it needs consensus, the will of the people and compromise. A successful leader leads, not demands. He is in it for the good of the country in all its diversity, not just ‘shareholders’.  A political leader must achieve the possible. Shareholders don’t change governments, citizens do. It is failure to understand these things that makes Mr. Trump a bad choice to run a country.

Friday, 11 October 2024

Bombast Politics

 

Did you ever wonder why Donald Trump says something outrageous almost every day? Whether it’s at one of his rallies or at a news conference or interview, he will have something to say that stretches credulity or decorum. As long as there is a reporter, or better still, a news camera around, there he’ll be spouting his lies or exaggerations.

“In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.”
  -
George Orwell

He does it because it ensures that he will be in the news the next day, preferably as the lead story. “At his rally last night, Donald Trump said . . .” He does it to drown out his opponent. He does it on purpose.

I call it bombast politics.  Being as bombastic, outrageous or loud as you can so you, and nobody else, gets heard. It is a style that Mr. Trump has mastered.  As someone once said, “Bad publicity is better than no publicity at all.”

“No man is exempt from saying silly things; the mischief is to say them deliberately.”
  -
Michel de Montaigne

Unfortunately, we are seeing this same phenomenon of bombast politics being played out in Canada. In this case by Pierre Poilievre. The venues may be different, but the effect is the same.  In his case, it’s in the House of Commons, where he dominates Question Period, or in the inevitable news conference.  Remember when he would not attend any news conferences? Slam you opponent, call the government side any number of names, exaggerate the condition of the country. You know that there are reporters around and that CSPAN is always videoing your encounters. Better yet, get yourself silenced for a day, or even ejected from the chamber.  You know right away that you will the headline in the news cycle. Bombast politics.

Bombast politics does nothing to advance the business of the government. It presents no substantive ideas. It does not include any ideas on how to make things better. Does it not bother you that neither Mr. Trump nor Mr. Poilievre have given us anything but vague promises about how they would do something different to address their perceived problems?  Bombast works; plans can come back to haunt you.

“It's so much easier to suggest solutions when you don't know too much about the problem.”

  - Malcolm Forbes

Let’s silence bombast politics by not supporting it nor giving it anything but disdain.